being in our kid's corner

It feels like every year there is some new drug being used, crazy ways of using substances and trying to keep up can be daunting. Throughout the school year I will do my best to keep you posted as well as throw terms and forms of paraphernalia that's out there that you may not be familiar with. 

The bottom line is that whether in a school setting, home or in a social setting if you throw substances in the mix it can be a little overwhelming in knowing what being under the influence looks like. I have parents ask me all the time, "what do I look for?" 

Symptoms of being under the influence:

·      glassy eyes

·      slurred speech

·      odor (alcohol, weed)

·      stumbling, lack of coordination

·      deviation in mood or behavior (erratic behavior or extreme lethargy)

There are occasions where outside factors can have a bearing on a young person's appearance, such as allergies or lack of sleep. But you know your child better than anyone and if your gut is telling you something more than likely you're right on cue.

 I do believe our kids can get through their high school years without getting into using substances, but it sure isn't an easy task. Communicate with your kids, know who they spend their time with,  encourage them to chat if they have concerns about friends or even themselves. Being a teenager is really hard and our kids have pressures on them every day. Let them know you are rooting for them and that drinking and smoking weed isn't a right of passage in high school.

I do believe most of our kids really don't want to get into using substances, but many feel alone or get tired of the fight and can often just throw in the towel succumbing to pressure. It is our job as parent's to be our kids biggest advocate and cheerleader. Remind them how awesome they are, reinforce that they are not alone in this fight. Remember, it takes a village.